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<!--Generated by Squarespace V5 Site Server v5.13.158 (http://www.squarespace.com) on Wed, 22 May 2013 18:15:19 GMT--><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"><title>Blog</title><subtitle>Blog</subtitle><id>http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/</id><link rel="alternate" type="application/xhtml+xml" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/"/><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/atom.xml"/><updated>2013-05-20T15:53:02Z</updated><generator uri="http://five.squarespace.com/" version="Squarespace V5 Site Server v5.13.158 (http://www.squarespace.com)">Squarespace</generator><entry><title>Make me care</title><id>http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/5/20/make-me-care.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/5/20/make-me-care.html"/><author><name>Tammar</name></author><published>2013-05-20T15:46:05Z</published><updated>2013-05-20T15:46:05Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>Have you seen the Ted talk by Andrew Stanton on what makes a good story? Stanton is the creator of <em>Toy Story</em> and <em>WALL-E</em>. He does drop an F-bomb in the talk, right off bat, but it'll make you laugh.</p>
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<p>His basic premise about how to tell a story is to "make me care." We watch, we read, we stay and listen because we care. And we care because there's something there that intriguing, or compelling, or touching. We want to know what happens next."Drama is anticipation mingled with uncertainty."</p>
<p>Now that's a recipe for sucess if I ever heard one.</p>
<p>More later,</p>
<p>Tammar</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>A magical way to see yourself</title><id>http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/5/13/a-magical-way-to-see-yourself.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/5/13/a-magical-way-to-see-yourself.html"/><author><name>Tammar</name></author><published>2013-05-13T14:14:48Z</published><updated>2013-05-13T14:14:48Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>This 14 year old kid's <a href="http://www.mymodernmet.com/profiles/blogs/zev-self-portraits-little-folk/">photos</a> are simply magical. The coolest part about them is that they are self portraits! What an amazing way to re-imagine yourself. Each one of these feel like a glimpse into a hidden little world or the start of a novel, don't you think?</p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://api.ning.com/files/PD*OEYumS6U4plvqnXfXpzA30IQYQDPa3ncTb719i0GeTKnQ8pbauZkGt36q-nEb6iMJs7KNTj*dyQq1IY65mYC9W64zxCC3/zevlittlefolk3.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1368454577799" alt="" /></span></span></p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://api.ning.com/files/PD*OEYumS6Xb4xb0cUTuNbKrcqrZJMpG4Wggr8K9c2weqgYClY76bNlCIFGJH7NUaiAqyrVmWPThelEtYnRvxmfLvlPSjyHj/zevlittlefolk5.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1368454652779" alt="" /></span></span></p>
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<p>See more of them <a href="http://api.ning.com/files/PD*OEYumS6U4plvqnXfXpzA30IQYQDPa3ncTb719i0GeTKnQ8pbauZkGt36q-nEb6iMJs7KNTj*dyQq1IY65mYC9W64zxCC3/zevlittlefolk3.jpg">here</a>.</p>
<p>More later,</p>
<p>Tammar</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Junot and Me</title><id>http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/5/5/junot-and-me.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/5/5/junot-and-me.html"/><author><name>Tammar</name></author><published>2013-05-05T22:57:55Z</published><updated>2013-05-05T22:57:55Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.tammarstein.com/storage/junot2.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1367794753240" alt="" /></span></span></p>
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<p>With whom are you hanging out with, so casually discussing art, literature and meaning of life, you ask? Why, none other than Junot Diaz. Do I look a bit star struck? Naw, not me. He gave an amazing talk last week and was kind enough to hang out afterwards with all of us admirers, staying relaxed and down to earth with everyone.</p>
<p>His talk was full of salty language that he used like a scalple to cut through people's expectations and shyness.</p>
<p>"I won't shame you," he promised a woman as he asked her to stand up in front of everyone (there were maybe 200 people in the room.) She hesitated. "I won't shame you." And he didn't. She had asked him what a couple of Spanish words from his book meant. She couldn't find the definition anywhere. Once she stood up, he said, "could the someone in the audience who knows what those words mean find this woman after my talk and tell her?" It was such a charming way to handle an awkward situation (and one imagines that the words were totally x rated since he had no problem dropping about a hundred f-bombs in an hour.)</p>
<p>It was a great evening and I'm reading his Pulitzer prize winning novel <em>The Brief Wonderful Life of Oscar Wao</em>. And it's pretty wow, too.</p>
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<p>More later,</p>
<p>Tammar</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Survey says part III.</title><id>http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/4/22/survey-says-part-iii.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/4/22/survey-says-part-iii.html"/><author><name>Tammar</name></author><published>2013-04-22T21:01:34Z</published><updated>2013-04-22T21:01:34Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">MY NAME: MIRIAM ABBOT-LEVY</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What are you listening to right now?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp; </span>The Story by Brandi Carlile</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What time did you get up this&nbsp;morning?<span style="color: black;"> 7 am</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What are you reading? The Bride&rsquo;s Farewell by Meg Rosoff. We might start running book reviews in the paper. I&rsquo;m pushing Frank to say yes.<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /> What was the last movie you saw?<span style="color: black;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;</span>I can&rsquo;t remember, isn&rsquo;t that horrible? Probably something lame with Mo on TV.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What did you eat for breakfast?&nbsp; Oatmeal with honey and tea. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp; <br /> What food do you&nbsp;dislike? Fried food. Tastes great but&hellip;you know.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What characteristic do you despise? Meanness.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">Favorite item of clothing?&nbsp; Emmett&rsquo;s leather jacket.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp; </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">If you could go anywhere in the world on vacation, where would you go?<span style="color: black;">&nbsp;&nbsp;Japan</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp; </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">How are you today?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp; </span>I&rsquo;m fine, thanks.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; display: none; mso-hide: all;">&nbsp;</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">The first person you spoke to on   the phone today:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp; </span>My mom. She called to   ask about Mo.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp; </span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">Summer or winter? Spring</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">Hugs or kisses?&nbsp;&nbsp;Hugs</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp; </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">Chocolate or   Vanilla?&nbsp;&nbsp;Vanilla</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">Coffee or tea?<span style="color: black;">&nbsp;&nbsp;Tea.</span>&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">When was the last time you cried?   Let&rsquo;s just say someone&rsquo;s back in my life that I didn&rsquo;t expect to see again.   He&rsquo;d make anyone cry. </span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What did you do last night?&nbsp; Nothing exciting. It&rsquo;s a work night, so I went to bed early. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What are you afraid of?&nbsp;&nbsp;Failing the people I love.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"><br /></span></p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Survey says part II.</title><id>http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/4/10/survey-says-part-ii.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/4/10/survey-says-part-ii.html"/><author><name>Tammar</name></author><published>2013-04-10T16:37:51Z</published><updated>2013-04-10T16:37:51Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>Arden was overseas and had spotty internet access. I finally pinned her down when she landed back in the States again. Here are her survey answers.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">MY NAME:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp; </span>ARDEN VOGEL</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What time did you get up this&nbsp;morning?<span style="color: black;"> 5:27 am, but I think that was yesterday? I'm kind of thrown with jet lag. I haven't really slept in 29 hours.<br /></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;">&nbsp;</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What are you listening to? New Soul by Yael Naim. She sings in English, French and Hebrew, it's a pretty awesom mix. <br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;"><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">Diamonds or pearls?&nbsp; Pearls, I guess.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What are you reading now? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;</span>The Brotherhood series by J.R. Ward. Katie started me on the first book. It&rsquo;s like crack, you read one and you&rsquo;re addicted.<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br /> What was the last movie you saw?<span style="color: black;">&nbsp; </span>The Holiday. Now I&rsquo;m dying to do a house exchange.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp; </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">What did you eat for breakfast?&nbsp;Granola, fruit and yogurt. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">&nbsp;</span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;">&nbsp; <br /> What food do you&nbsp;dislike? Fishy fish. Anything over-priced.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;amp;quot; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;amp;quot;">When was the last time you cried?   The Holiday. Happy endings always make me cry.&nbsp; </span></p>
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</table>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Survey says:</title><id>http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/4/4/survey-says.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/4/4/survey-says.html"/><author><name>Tammar</name></author><published>2013-04-04T13:57:45Z</published><updated>2013-04-04T13:57:45Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>A favorite author of mine had her characters fill out some surveys.&nbsp; I thought this was such a great idea, I emailed Maya, Arden, and Miriam to see if they wanted to do this, too. Maya's email came in first.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>MY NAME:&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; MAYA LAOR</p>
<p><em>What are you listening to right now?</em> &nbsp;The Idan Raichel Project</p>
<p><em>What time did you get up this&nbsp;morning?</em><span style="color: black;">&nbsp;&nbsp; 10:30am, aka, the crack of dawn</span></p>
<p><em>Diamonds or pearls?</em> &nbsp;&nbsp;Diamonds&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p><em>What did you eat for breakfast?</em> &nbsp;&nbsp;Coffee, toast and jam</p>
<p><em>What food do you&nbsp;dislike?</em> &nbsp;&nbsp;Watery tomatoes! How hard is it to grow decent produce?</p>
<p><em>What characteristic do you despise?</em> &nbsp;Lack of sincerity</p>
<p><em>What are you reading?</em> Counselor by Ted Sorensen. Justin asked me to read it.</p>
<p><em>Favorite item of clothing?</em> &nbsp;Leather sandals that Hen sent for my birthday. That woman&rsquo;s got taste.</p>
<p><em>If you could go anywhere in the world on vacation, where would you go</em>?<span style="color: black;">&nbsp;&nbsp; There&rsquo;s no place like Jerusalem. No place.&nbsp;</span></p>
<p><span style="color: black;"><em>What did you want to be when you were little?</em> A unicorn.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: black;"><em>How are you today</em>? A little anxious. Huge exam today. It's the reason I woke up at the crack of dawn.<br /></span></p>
<p><em>The first person you spoke to on the phone today?</em> No one yet, thank God.</p>
<p><em>Summer or winter?</em> Winter. Especially snow. (<em>I think she's blushing, but it's hard to tell over email</em>.)</p>
<p><em>Hugs or kisses</em>? Kisses.</p>
<p><em>Chocolate or vanilla?</em> Are you joking? This is a question? Chocolate, of course.</p>
<p><em>Coffee or tea?</em> Again, what's with asking the obvious? Coffee. Coffee. Coffee.</p>
<p><em>When was the last time you cried?</em> I don't want to talk about it.</p>
<p><em>What are you afraid of?</em> Losing the ones I love. I will never stop fearing that.</p>
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<p>Arden promised to get her answers in soon...</p>
<p>More later,</p>
<p>Tammar</p>
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<p>You still have to wait a bit before you can read it (Dec 1, to be exact), but at least you can now feast your eyes on the cover. Do you like it? Doesn't it look like a hot, muggy summer? (It's supposed to.)</p>
<p>For the first time in my writing life, I actually lived in one place long enough to write about it and Florida wormed its way into the novel like a second protagonist. When you live somewhere that has man-eating sink holes, dog-eating alligators, and cement-eating termites, it's not something that just slinks by unobtrusively. No. It makes itself known. It takes over the plot like an invasive air potato (yeah, we have that too, and they look exactly like innocent potatoes laying on top of the soil, except they're poisonous.)</p>
<p>I can't wait to share <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Spoils-Tammar-Stein/dp/0375870628/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1363723861&amp;sr=8-5&amp;keywords=Tammar+Stein">Spoils</a> with you (and the free e-novella, Debts, that will come before hand.)</p>
<p>More later,</p>
<p>Tammar</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Work in progress</title><id>http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/3/10/work-in-progress.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/3/10/work-in-progress.html"/><author><name>Tammar</name></author><published>2013-03-10T15:20:24Z</published><updated>2013-03-10T15:20:24Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>My third novel, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Kindred-Tammar-Stein/dp/0375853499/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1362929478&amp;sr=1-3&amp;keywords=tammar+stein"><em>Kindred</em></a>, came about in a very unusual way. I was driving in the car and listening to the radio when the Black Crows song, <em>Addiction</em>, came on. I'd heard this song before, of course, but for some reason on that day, the lyrics stayed and haunted me long after the song ended. <em>Says she talks to angels, says they call her out by her name. </em></p>
<p>For two days, that line played on endless repeat in my head until finally, to make it stop, I wrote a short story about a young woman named Miriam whom the angels call out. When I finished the story, instead of feeling better, I felt like I'd only started. That short story grew up to be <em>Kindred</em>. Phew, right? Nope. Normally, I would be finished. In my previous two novels, once I finished writing and editing the book I was finished with the characters. As much as I loved them, we were all ready to move on. Not <em>Kindred</em>. Two years after it first appeared, the darned image of a terrible being appearing to some unsuspecting fool still hadn't left. There was more left to say.</p>
<p>For those of you have read <em>Kindred</em>, I'm sure you can feel it too. I certainly got enough emails about it. There was more to Miriam and Emmett and Mo. I outlined an entire sequel, but for various reasons, I didn't write it. Instead, I wrote a different story: two very minor characters from <em>Kindred</em> have their own story told set in the same world where angels appear to unsuspecting individuals as the devil messes with their complicated sibling.&nbsp; I've finished writing this book and it will come out this year, probably December, as the companion novel <em>Spoils</em>. More on that on a later post.</p>
<p>But in the meantime, there's this gap between where <em>Kindred</em> leaves off and <em>Spoils</em> picks up and the connection between Miriam and Emmett to Leni and Gavin seems so distant as to be almost invisible. So I decided to do yet another new thing. I'm writing a novella, a bridge between <em>Kindred</em> and <em>Spoils</em> that tells a bit about what happens to Miriam and Emmett, the Florida tea shop owner Natasha, and the critical link between Tennessee and Florida.</p>
<p>My first readers are now taking a look at it and I plan to post it for free by Fall, 2013. I can't wait to hear what you all think of it once it's out and I dearly hope you enjoy it.</p>
<p>More later,</p>
<p>Tammar</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Writers at home...</title><id>http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/3/5/writers-at-home.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/3/5/writers-at-home.html"/><author><name>Tammar</name></author><published>2013-03-05T17:37:46Z</published><updated>2013-03-05T17:37:46Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p>are mostly slobs.</p>
<p>Don't believe me? Look <a href="http://flavorwire.com/373741/25-fascinating-photos-of-famous-writers-at-home/view-all">here</a>. I love this voyeuristic view into writers' homes, but no, I'm not posting one of me, naked, reading the paper. Sorry, Hemingway, most of us can't rock that look like you do.</p>
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<p>I think it's a hoot that Rudyard Kipling wears a safari hat at home. You know, just relaxin'. Though I have to admit that his bookshelves are remarkably tidy.</p>
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<p>More later,</p>
<p>Tammar</p>]]></content></entry><entry><title>Random inspiration</title><id>http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/2/26/random-inspiration.html</id><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.tammarstein.com/blog/2013/2/26/random-inspiration.html"/><author><name>Tammar</name></author><published>2013-02-26T21:23:42Z</published><updated>2013-02-26T21:23:42Z</updated><content type="html" xml:lang="en-US"><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>&ldquo;If you want to build a ship, don&rsquo;t drum up people to collect wood and  don&rsquo;t assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the  endless immensity of the sea.&rdquo;<br /> &mdash; Antoine de Saint-Exup&eacute;ry</strong></em></p>
<p>(Found <a href="http://www.swiss-miss.com/2013/02/build-a-ship.html">here</a>.)</p>
<p>More later,</p>
<p>Tammar</p>]]></content></entry></feed>